Marriage Counsellor and relationship Activist lady Rev Owurayere NapsArhin has advised the youth to stay away from their Exes.
In a Facebook post sighted by www.trendingfilla.com, the outspoken Youth activist has explained dangerous it is to run back to the same person who gave you broken heart which nearly took your life.
A suicidal attempt is, going back your to Ex! Something or someone who /should be/must be/is a history to your present life. Ex is a noun used to describe something you no more have intimate interactions with period!
You are doomed forever!
What at all do you want again from the man/woman who deliberately, shamefully and ignorantly disintegrated you by giving you broken heart which took God to save you from destruction…?
Some broken hearts cause a massive and untreated depression,which again can bring death. If not death then mental disorder.
Instead of covering your back and moving on,you still responding to this person’s calls and text messages. Consider the circumstances which led to that ”broken heart” situation and advice yourself.
Let’s look at some situations that can compel you to reunite with your ex. (Go or not to go back them)
1)when there is an issue(a child,or children) between the two of you.
2) when you lost contact due to a journey one embarked on.
3) When there was no reason for your separation. It just happened without a cause,or that separations was due to a third person’s presence(an intruder not a lover to either of you,can be a bad or a jealous friend,colleague or family)
With these three reasons and many more you can boldly test the waters again but with a serpent’s eye (be vigilante) to prevent mayhem. Watch vigilantly with all your body,soul and mind!
But,apart these three reasons, any other reason is bogus, and I do not advice anyone to go reuniting with their exe becauae they came crying for fogiveness….wiiiiiiiii,haven’t you seen a man who can cry to fill the dried up akosombo dam before wrhhhhhh? As for me, I have seen some ooool herrrr, and still witness some pappa now now now!
I advice you against this with the reason that,they might be coming to either pay you back for what you did.
2)either because they realised how worthy you were after leaving for the person they though was better than you.
3) either they have now seen the absolute difference between their so called new catch and you. Your character and behaviours are totally different. The new one is tooooooo demanding…chewing too much cash,you never did. You were the type that would always not ask or ask for a little and he she did not see how economical you were… When ”sika nu ashe” he is coming back to lure you. I call it ”come back deception”.
4)either at the time of you living together, you had nothing, now God has opened doors, you are well to do as either a single lady or gent,they have seen your pictures,videos and other activities somewhere,friends are telling them to come and apologise, they tell them he/she loose guard paaaa oooooo, so he/she too wants to show them he can win you back.
They now want to come and chop some erhhhhhhhhh,drive them away oooooo…they never believed in dabidabi 3b3y3 yie chai! Send them out your of life and look forward koraaaa.
5)either they want to come back and chop you( sex ) for free because you left the relationship unexpectedly herrrrrrr,you follow and see,your eyes will open like something and you won’t end your tears. That would be suicidal.
6)and those who broke up with you because their parents disliked you nu. See, they are no more so want to come back. Meaning they couldn’t stand to defend you before their parents,now how can they stand with you when you have a court case hah? Aren’t they cowards…..? Never go back go back to a ”cowarded exes” they can’t fight for you.
Exes are dangerous, beware and ask yourself some questions if you want to reunite with them.
To be continued!
Stay tuned for this!
Later, will come and talk about why you should not be at loggerheads with your ex……!
Owurayere Lady Nanapanin Ahin & FamilyRelationship Matters